The worst nightmare for any guy out there is to take a girl out & not be able to pay the bills.
Worse still, it may be a guy that is forced to overspend so as to avert potential embarrassment. I’ve been there & I’m sure you’ve been there as well…
So, what are the assumptions that we make that lead us to makeing such a mess?
1)She knows my financial status;
I’m a great believer in honesty & when it comes to sensitive matters such as finances, this is the safest, most convinient way to handle the finance issue…
You’ll be more comfy & open in conversation since your honesty will reward you…
2) She loves me just the way I am;
This never EVER works… you’ve got to assess your current financial situation because this is the basis for the discovery of surplus funds to support both you & your lady.
Being single isn’t that bad… in fact, it’s much better than ennding up alone & miserable after the first date!
& last but not least…
A real man ensures that his ego doesn’t get to his head… or simply put, your words should go hand in hand with your deeds!
I mean, what’s the need of creating an impression that you drive this:
Only to appear for the first date with this;
What kind of first impression is that really?
Is your life a joke or something?