Why are men so irresponsible these days?

A lady this weekend asked me, Why are men so irresponsible these days? This was my reply to her… The biggest challenge for men today is the feeling of inadequacy. The inadequacy to provide enough. The inadequacy to match up to a woman and have a stable relationship. And the inadequacy of guidance on how

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The Genesis of an Emerging Player|

One thing I especially admire about my dad is that he’s been faithful to my mum throughout the years of pain & struggle. On the other hand, one thing that I’m not admiring about myself lately is that I’m turning out to be the exact opposite. As it turns out, being a player is becoming

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Showers of Trouble|

There comes a time in our lives when we feel like the world is against us. Like there’s some curse roaming around & the heavens are against us. I’ve been experiencing this lately & It’s been the reason why I’ve gone silent on my blog. It’s been a series of broken promises, backstabs & failures

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An Introvert’s Perspective of Teamwork|

Having been raised as the only son in the family with two sisters, I practically had to learn to deal with issues on my own. See, there was this imbalanced sibling rivalry that was manifested in the way I dealt with confrontations within the family. If either of my sisters had an arguement, they had

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When I treat her like a gentleman, I end up looking like a fool…

Recent events have led me to the realization that there’s a ruthless breed of women that’s emerging. The kind that take advantage of men’s kindness… & to be more specific… good men. You know, the gentlemen who treat ladies with respect & concern only to be thanked with a donkey’s kick. The men that care

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Life|

The most scary reality for me when I wake up each morning is to realize that I’ll give an account of how I spent each & every second on this planet. There’s no insurance, no playbacks… nothing. Once I’ve made a mistake, or wasted my precious energy on a meaningless past time, then that’s it!

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Did you wake up feeling Alone and in Despair?… you’re not alone. Please read on…|

When I opened my eyes this morning, I felt this invicible heaviness on my body. It’s a feeling that goes beyond words. In fact, It’s a weird culmination so to speak… of despair, laziness, depression, loneliness… you name it. Now all that concotion in one heavy dosage. Fact is, its become common… not just in

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Somebody say Eloquence…|

In campus, I hold a high ranking position in the student fraternity. And with that comes lots of responsibility particularly in regards to the image I portray. This doesn’t come as a surprise considering the fact that I’m occasionally given the task of hosting bigwigs & taking them on a tour around campus. Indeed, I’ve

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Remnants of the Big City|

So last weekend, I met an old lady friend of mine at the Anniversary towers; *EK, an undergraduate student in Pharmacy at the University of Nairobi. We hadn’t met for a very long time since 2003 & we had a lot of catching up to do. We talked about life events that ensued & how

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It takes a STRONG character to CONFORM & say YES, but it takes a STRONGER character to DISCERN and say NO|

In my previous article, “It’s a Cruel World of Assumptions” I addressed the major challenge that I’ve had to endure during my tenure as Mr. Kenyatta University 2011. And that challenge has basically been the bombardment of unrealistic expectations in my life. And after meditating on my confession, I realized that indeed, it takes a

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