Why are men so irresponsible these days?

A lady this weekend asked me, Why are men so irresponsible these days? This was my reply to her… The biggest challenge for men today is the feeling of inadequacy. The inadequacy to provide enough. The inadequacy to match up to a woman and have a stable relationship. And the inadequacy of guidance on how

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Life|

The most scary reality for me when I wake up each morning is to realize that I’ll give an account of how I spent each & every second on this planet. There’s no insurance, no playbacks… nothing. Once I’ve made a mistake, or wasted my precious energy on a meaningless past time, then that’s it!

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Did you wake up feeling Alone and in Despair?… you’re not alone. Please read on…|

When I opened my eyes this morning, I felt this invicible heaviness on my body. It’s a feeling that goes beyond words. In fact, It’s a weird culmination so to speak… of despair, laziness, depression, loneliness… you name it. Now all that concotion in one heavy dosage. Fact is, its become common… not just in

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Remnants of the Big City|

So last weekend, I met an old lady friend of mine at the Anniversary towers; *EK, an undergraduate student in Pharmacy at the University of Nairobi. We hadn’t met for a very long time since 2003 & we had a lot of catching up to do. We talked about life events that ensued & how

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It takes a STRONG character to CONFORM & say YES, but it takes a STRONGER character to DISCERN and say NO|

In my previous article, “It’s a Cruel World of Assumptions” I addressed the major challenge that I’ve had to endure during my tenure as Mr. Kenyatta University 2011. And that challenge has basically been the bombardment of unrealistic expectations in my life. And after meditating on my confession, I realized that indeed, it takes a

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It’s a cruel world of Assumptions|

I’ve been in the modelling industry for past two years & thus, when I was crowned Mr. Kenyatta University 2011, I Learn’t the hard way that this planet has a populance that’s addicted & in love with assumptions & presumptions. Indeed, there are those who make the mistake of judging others based on their outward

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Meanwhile… as we ceaselessly complain.|

It’s interesting how people perceive life in such diverse ways that you would be forgiven for thinking that they live in different planets. From the Greeks who’ve lost their jobs & bear the brunt of the Euro crisis, to the Chinese billionaires who rake in lots & lots of money year after year from exporting

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Are ladies Aiming to Far?|

That’s the issue that’s been ringing in my head for the past few weeks. It started when I noticed with keen interest some ladies in my hometown that we had grown up with &  had found their knights in shining armour in the “diaspora”, or greener pastures so to speak, but were expressing anguish &

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They’re Unhappy, but they won’t admit it.|

This post will definitely annoy some radical feminists out there. But as confucius once said; “Signs and symbols rule the world, not words nor laws. Which means that it doesn’t matter how many speeches & manifestos feminists give in the limelight. What counts is that behind the scenes, these women are unhappy. And since we

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Let The Man Have His Pride.|

I’ve personally been raised up in a generation of assumptions. Sex education was something I had to discover for myself through American Pie, my peers & unfortunately, pornography. Before High School, I was a boy. The moment I joined high school, I found myself in a confusing predicament. Why? Because I was presumed to be

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