Why are men so irresponsible these days?

A lady this weekend asked me, Why are men so irresponsible these days? This was my reply to her… The biggest challenge for men today is the feeling of inadequacy. The inadequacy to provide enough. The inadequacy to match up to a woman and have a stable relationship. And the inadequacy of guidance on how

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10 reasons why Feminism should be banned! (Part 1)

I’m going to be brief, precise & straight to the point here because this article is result oriented; & by that I mean RESULTS ON THE GROUND. See, it doesn’t matter whether the government pledged to create a million jobs, so long as it creates only a thousand, then those are the results people will

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The Feminine vs The Feminists

The first woman I ever interacted with was my mother; loving, kind hearted, caring & patient with my flaws & imperfections. And it shouldn’t surprise you when I say that this is also the last woman I would like to end up with; of course not my mother… but someone close to that. And that

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Why worry too much?

A lot of times we  do find ourselves caught up in that mountain of workload that frustrates us & keeps us second guessing on what results to expect. What ensues is that a myriad of fearful thoughts fills the mind as our sense of composure looses its ground. Our perception of the situation at hand

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Man up or the Women Will-THE OFFICIAL BOOK LAUNCH.

First of all let me say how grateful I am to all those who’ve been following my blog! Kudos to that! Anyhow, this isn’t a farewell party but it’s the celebration of the birth of a new born baby! Yes My friends, it’s the masterpiece I’ve been working on for the last 18months! And you

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Hope in the face of Despair.

Many times we do find ourselves dangling at the edge of a cliff; friendships on a downward spiral, unsuccessful relationships, debts at an all time high, financial droughts year after year, opportunity after opportunity passing us by, fruitless efforts… the list goes on & on. The point where our dignity is at stake & life

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Do I know you?

Our imperfections are a reflection of our authenticity. In fact, you & I are as different as our fingerprints… so to speak. It then doesn’t come as a surprise that pretenders are worse that murderers. I mean, most murderers maintain their authentic sense of character while most pretenders are opportunistic adapters of situations.For instance, wannabes

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You made me do it you fool!

Everybody is responsible for his/her own actions, but when it comes to owning up to our mistakes, then that virtue become a task too difficult to deliver. Like when we feel that the mistake was triggered by someone that enraged us; this occurs especially when we’re tired & frustrated… when we don’t want to interact

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“But I thought you forgave me?”

Many relationships do have secret grudges that keep on re-surfacing now & then; a past full of bitter memories that evoke a thirst for vengeance. The guilty one is usually on his/her toes as the innocent spouse points a conscious accusing finger at the supposed culprit. Guilt eats up the sinner so long as the

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Warning!Resolution Breach is Currently Being Processed!

Every 31st of December presents that cherished privilege to celebrate the 365day event referred to as a year; wild parties & family get-togethers are the order of the day as loved ones reminisce the past year & look into the future with renewed optimism. And with the optimism comes the urge to make resolutions. However,

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