10 reasons why Feminism should be banned! (Part 1)


I’m going to be brief, precise & straight to the point here because this article is result oriented; & by that I mean RESULTS ON THE GROUND. See, it doesn’t matter whether the government pledged to create a million jobs, so long as it creates only a thousand, then those are the results people will focus on!
Because in the end, only a thousand people will be employed & not what the pledge dictated!
So let no feminist out there come to educate me about the initial purpose of feminism… I already know the details & quite frankly, they’re outdated as depicted by the results on the ground such as:

1)Escalation in gender polarisation;

Behind all the public smiles, hugs & handshakes are men & women that secretly hate each other. Marriages are on a downward spiral as divorce & infidelity thrives; why? Because marriage is a symbol of gender peace & harmony whereas divorce & infidelity are mutual symbols of gender anarchy & war. And I do hope that you’re taking keen note of the words SECRET HATRED; meaning concealed/hidden/camouflaged.

Results on the ground: Self denial, Escalating distrust in dates, relationships & marriage & Pessimistic & undesirable views regarding marriage with increased justifications of infidelity.

2)Neglected boy child;

In my book ‘Man Up or the Women Will’, I’ve clearly stipulated that the boy child is confused & forgotten. And why’s that? It’s because so much emphasis has been placed on the girl child to a point of forgetting & neglecting the boy child. What unfolds is that the boy child lives in uncertainty & insecurity as to what a man ought to be & his do’s & don’ts of treating a lady. So should we blame the boy child for arriving at his misconceived conclusions?

Results on the ground: Sharp rise in gay men, immature men, insecure men, violent men, irresponsible men & unfaithful men.

3)Confused girl child;

The same woman that’s supposed to be guarded & provided for is the same woman that disrespects her man. The same woman that wants gender equality is the same woman that can’t fix her car tire… the same woman that wants to be loved by her faithful husband is the same woman that treats him like a stranger by using the ‘feminism shield’ to argue out her cases against her lover & her best friend.

Results on the ground: Disrespect of husbands & dethroning of the man as head of the household based on her ability to provide more… please read this briefly before proceeding.

4)Lack of clear-cut boundaries regarding feminism;

Feminism was initially invented for work related issues. But then when it was extended into marriage, things went awry!
In any case, I thought marriage issues are supposed to be solved by MARRIAGE COUNSELORS? Because marriage isn’t a government institution! Government is full of distrust, corruption, conspiracies & unnecessary paper work. Feminism dehumanizes marriage; making it all about RIGHTS, not LOVE… the foundation of marriage.
Love conquers all by bringing peace & harmony; factors that would put feminists out of business… literary!

Results on the ground: Just like America craves for oil, feminism craves for gender right violations!

5)Feminism lost its meaningful purpose after the early 90s…
Developed & developing nations achieved the purpose of feminism in the early 90s. Then the feminists seeing that they had nothing to do extended their poisonous & destructive tentacles into the family.

Feminism today is MOSTLY useful in ghettos & third world countries where vulnerable girls are used as sex workers in modern day slavery… the family should have never ever been touched in the first place!

In any case, if gender equality is the noble cause of feminism, then why shouldn’t men be involved?! Why is it that people are blinded by the misconception that only feminists can solve gender based issues?

It’s about time feminists were replaced by *Gender Equality Activists; UNBIASED, FAIR & USEFUL to every man, woman & child on this planet!

And with that, I declare feminism:

So let the shoe throwing, stone throwing & mockery begin!

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The Feminine vs The Feminists


The first woman I ever interacted with was my mother; loving, kind hearted, caring & patient with my flaws & imperfections. And it shouldn’t surprise you when I say that this is also the last woman I would like to end up with; of course not my mother… but someone close to that.
And that my friends is feminine.
She’ll cook nicely for you & pamper you with love & affection.
Now, if you’re a woman & you think that this is impossible, then you’ guilty of being a feminist. Because feminists think that if they pamper a guy like that, he’ll end up being a spoilt brat! But hey! Here are some few pointers for you…

1)I never told you to end up with the bad guys!
I don’t know what it is with ‘liberated women’ who think that they can defy nature & get away with it! So they decide hey!
‘As long as he’s good looking, why should I worry?’
Because I can guarantee you that most ‘hot’ guys are just bad guys that don’t care whether they’re pampered with love & affection or not. They just love making women who worship them feel less of themselves… & then these hurt women become feminists & they conclude that men are dogs… so let me rephrase that;

3)Be Real!
Yes ladies… oh sorry… I mean feminists. Why do you let the media get to your head? Do you live in Hollywood or something? Or are you just too obssessed with being a perfectionist? First of all, be yourself & second of all, stop thinking that it’s the billionaire status that will make you happy… or that marrying an ‘usher’ is the only way to have a great sex life. Stop being a barbie & start acting like a woman if you want to be treated like one. Spend less time on make-up & social networking & find some time to learn culinary skills & stuff that make a woman A REAL WOMAN! It’s women who behave like naive little girls & wannabes that just want to control men for no substantial reason! If you don’t know how to treat & keep a man, then just stay a feminist…

3) Stop with the hating & start with the appreciating.
If only feminists would stop with all these ‘act like a woman, think like a man’ innuendos, then the world would be a better place. But today, it’s common to stand in the midst of women & feel like you’re surrounded by men! Enough already with the gender equality debate! Because it’s this debate that has carried away women for so long to a point of filling their minds with hatred against men…
You can hate the jerks, I second you on that! But please, I’m a gentleman… let’s work as a team! You learn how to handle me & I’ll learn to handle a lady like you… appreciation through complementing, not hating through competing.

And in the end, peace & harmony reigns, just like it was mean’t to be!

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Man up or the Women Will-THE OFFICIAL BOOK LAUNCH.

First of all let me say how grateful I am to all those who’ve been following my blog!

Kudos to that!

Anyhow, this isn’t a farewell party but it’s the celebration of the birth of a new born baby!

Yes My friends, it’s the masterpiece I’ve been working on for the last 18months!

And you get the chance to sample my writing delicacy by downloading the introductory part of this book for free!

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You also get the chance to decide whether this book is awesome or just another complete bore… so I challenge you to download the free 15 page introductory bit above!

However, the entire123 page masterpiece is going for a very minimum price.

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Trust me, once you download the intro & sample it, you’ll not hesitate to purchase the entire book!

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Hope in the face of Despair.

Many times we do find ourselves dangling at the edge of a cliff; friendships on a downward spiral, unsuccessful relationships, debts at an all time high, financial droughts year after year, opportunity after opportunity passing us by, fruitless efforts… the list goes on & on. The point where our dignity is at stake & life seems only unfair to us as the undeserving spoilt brats get to live a smooth life & get what they want, when they want…

These are the moments of despair… moments that make time to slow down as the pangs of pain seem to be elevated & exaggerated beyond our prior experiences. And with each passing day, one tends to wonder whether he/she was born to suffer; & whether destiny had a grudge with them before conception. Do problems discriminate? Do they have an invisible source lurking somewhere? That’s a question for another day…

But for now, lets focus on your one on one encounter with problems. What do you need to withstand them?



Left, right & center, they’ll keep on coming. In fact, the more you progress in life, the more the challenges arise & sometimes they do come in humongous, complicated packages. It’s said that if you can’t take the heat, then you should get out of the kitchen; because it’s in the kitchen that the pressure keeps on getting higher & higher with every meal you cook. And the more experience you gain, the higher you go in terms of cooking more complex foods. However, it’s not always smooth sailing since you’ll mess up here & there as the heat & pressure keeps piling up & despair sets in. In fact, the mistakes you make may grow with every elevation you make! Such situations require a formidable mindset fortress that can offer the needed attitude back-up in case worst comes to worst! It definitely doesn’t come easy & it will require discipline to sieve out negative meditations that make you lag behind!


You’ve got to be willing to go through your challenges & realize that pleasure in the job puts perfection in the work. Learn to convert moments of despair into moments of ‘a step closer to victory’ by meditating on thoughts that propel you to keep pushing on! Don’t back out because sometimes it’s not about whether you can push the rock… it’s the will that counts. Just like in the gym when you find yourself lifting a weight that seemed impossible to lift, yet your will pushed you to do the seemingly impossible!


There are moments of despair that are so hurtful, it feels like a dagger has been pierced through the heart especially when you dedicate you heart, soul & mind to accomplish a certain task. One is then left wondering as to whether it’s worth the risk to go higher. It’s said that once bitten, twice shy. But have you ever thought of not letting the hurt get to your heart? You’ve got to learn to guard your heart from unkind & ruthless surprises that may dampen your spirit & tempt you to throw in the towel… only to realize later on that you were ‘this close’ to finishing your sentence in the problems prison.

It’s these three tenets of strength in moments of despair that will give you hope, because your mind is like;

“When I get there, I’ll forget that I was in despair in the first place!’

She drives, I walk… Ouch!

The car has always been a status symbol for most people,

but not just any car…

you’ve got to have that car that makes a big impression. And not just a big impression… but an impression that surmounts your opponents.

But what if the opponent has a car & you have none!

And that the opponent in this case is a lady driving & there you’re, a guy on ‘route 11′(if you know what i mean)… strolling down the streets everyday.

Or how about we add insult to injury? Let’s just say that this lady is younger than you, is a freshman in campus & mind you… she’s not a spoilt brat!

On the contrary, she’s one heck of an independent signori-ta!

Utter embarrassment indeed Mr.umh… lets see

25yr old University graduate with no job, still searching for one & still staying at his momma’s house!

Okay… first of all, lemme say that a man’s ego is his most priced possession & the reason why i brought this up is because I’ve been there too. I mean, my ex told me that she doesn’t date ‘boys like me’ & i’m like…

“Oh… I almost forgot, the status symbol!”

So I reach a point where I conclude that women are the greatest liars…

Especially when they’re emotional, or when they have one of those PMS’s!

Then they tell you that they love you & that money don’t mean a thing & the anti-money campaign goes on & on & on…

Until it reaches one time that you piss her off & she’s like…

I must have been dreaming! I mean, how did i fall in love with this broke %ss loser in the first place?!

And the first thing that comes to mind is… but i thought she loved me… sob! sob!

Wake up guys! It never works, unless it’s one in a million…

& if you’re one, consider yourself lucky!

Otherwise, you’ll drown in your own misery!

Or I can save you with some simple advice that came to me when life knocked sense into my head…

Are you ready?

Okay guys, here goes!

Number one;

And please, please please!

This is very serious!

And always remember this whenever you see a hot chick driving an awesome ride & you want to…



Coz the only place where ‘No romance without finance’ doesn’t apply…

Is in…

Yes my friend! Disneyland is the place to be…

But hey, who knows?!

Maybe your dreams might come true in the real world!


Is your woman/wife a post-paid prostitute?

The prostitute I’m about to unveil is the one that you see every day; at work, in movies, in campus…  yet you’re not careful enough to notice her. In fact, you can’t point an accusing finger at her… at least for now until you’re through with this article….

This prostitute is smart, beautiful, intelligent, elegant…

You name it!

But of course, we’re used to the red light district caliber. You know… the ones that do it in the open…

The ones that eat, drink, breathe & carry themselves as pertains to the dictates of their profession.

At first, I thought that they’re the worst of them all.

Now… my perception about them has changed…

In fact, I’m starting to like them with each passing day!

Because there is another breed that’s emerging… the breed that’s good at covering its tracks after they’re through with their hit & run escapades.

The breed that looks for ‘financial stability’… & by financial stability, I mean lots & lots of money in terms  of a stable income. This breed thinks that it’s the most beautiful breed in the world; because of their sophisticated tastes, fashion & way of thinking.

This breed has been there since time immemorial… the reason why we’ve not noticed this breed of women is that first & foremost… they live among us & are closer than we think!

Practice makes perfect remember?

So if you have a female friend that’s used to extort favors from you all because she looks sexy… then you better watch out my friend because this woman is the #1 suspect!

And why’s that?  It’s because right there, standing in front of you with a sly smile & a cute face, is a potential post-paid prostitute…

Yes, the same chick you refer to as your potential wife because you have this chemistry & a lot in common & blah blah blah…

Then one thing leads to another & both of you get married… then you get kids & BAM!

She’s just hit the jackpot!

Arguments begin about how you work too hard & forget about the kids… then one thing leads to another (at this point you’ve not had sex for about  6 months maybe.)

Then one day you go to work & what do you find on your desk?

Divorce papers!

In the U.S., it’s the women that are leading in divorce cases… because they benefit a lot!

Child support funds, the 50/50 property sharing thingy…

And they even go to an extent of splitting you own firm 50/50!

Then the same woman finds another guy! Then the guy spoils himself with your hard-earned cash while you work your #ss out & live a miserable life!

And the post-paid prostitute creates an automated system of getting paid by you for the rest of her life!

Do you see now… what I mean by post-paid?

Be warned guys!

Don’t say I never warned you!

Virtual Nakedness- Women’s secret weapon

My High School English teacher once said:

“The human mind is sexually oriented.”

What he forgot to add was that a man’s mind is much… MUCH more sexually oriented than that of a woman.

Want proof? Alright then… where do you think I came up with this topic from? {tick-tock-tick-tock}

Okay guys… time’s up! The answer is the swimming pool! As i swam here & there in the campus pool, I couldn’t help but gaze at the wide array of beauties going back & forth with their bikinis.

And my oh my! My mind couldn’t help but explore what was beneath those tight, revealing things… (of course calling them clothes would be too decent & modest considering that brutal honesty is my style of expression.)

And my exploration went into my memory (of a past that I’m never proud of)… a high school past dominated by an addiction; Pornography -which we used to call ‘nopo’ in those hellish days( yes… my catholic boarding high school was the equivalent of a maximum prison).

Now, when you combine a fantasy/an imagination which is pornographic in this case with a virtually naked lady standing in front of you… then BAM! There you have it!

A naked woman is literary standing there looking at you innocently without a clue of what’s on your mind! (Or at least, that’s she wants you to think) And you didn’t even have to undress her!

Which explains why i aspired to be an Architect! Of course… not this kind really…

But the funny thing is that women love it! Because women crave for attention just like men crave for sports,beer…

Or even sex for that matter!

So they use this secret weapon called “Virtual nakedness”(Sounds like an app right? I hope Apple is reading this!)

And they know that men are born curious onlookers!

The funny bit about us (the curious onlookers) is this look we give that goes like ;”Damn! Did you see that?”

And the scantily dressed damsel/attention -addict goes like, ” yeah baibey!”

And then the same women go on & on about how men are dogs… blah blah blah!

And we continue seeing this happen over & over & over again! On the streets, in bars & worst of all… in churches!

I hope God‘s reading this!

So the next time I catch my 10 yr old son watching porn, the conversation may as well go like this:

DAD: Hey son! Why are you watching this?

SON: Here’s the deal DAD! Porn is every where! Look at what women out there wear these days?!

DAD: But they’re out there! They’re not in my house!

SON: And how about mum? Have you seen how she dresses lately when both of you go out?

DAD: Umh…

SON: C’mon dad… just this once!

DAD: Okay son! Just make it quick?

SON: Make what quick?!

DAD: No… it’s nothing…

(As DAD walks out…)

SON: Hey DAD?!

DAD: What now?!

SON: You can join me if you want… i mean… we rarely have a father-son time… right?

(And father & son lived happily ever after… enjoying women’s nakedness for leisure… they would later on enjoy prostitutes for a more practical approach… if you know what i mean…)